tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post5768235093880152087..comments2023-09-26T15:14:18.404+02:00Comments on LIVING LIFE TO THE MAX: COLD WEEKENDMaxmomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03352085013260757004noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-38659919992325860622010-06-03T19:46:54.856+02:002010-06-03T19:46:54.856+02:00the more your heart aches, the sweeter the memorie...the more your heart aches, the sweeter the memories... his love remains.. take heart, your love has gone to places beyond here.. n the love radiates to the other doggy parents!! thank you!maggiemia in the woods!https://www.blogger.com/profile/09223688301616692441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-91380978102418893552010-05-31T20:38:23.618+02:002010-05-31T20:38:23.618+02:00It's still hard to fathom that Max is gone and...It's still hard to fathom that Max is gone and I didn't even know him that long but he made such an impression on me.<br />I have the feeling that Tammy is going to do ok, she is strong because she had Max as a wonderful example and teacher.<br />Allison3 doxieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13717992332050041160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-74497224964420655852010-05-31T18:53:49.429+02:002010-05-31T18:53:49.429+02:00Caryl, the loss of a special dog is incomparable. ...Caryl, the loss of a special dog is incomparable. Clearly many, if not all, of your readers have been there and are here to support you now. About 6 months afer my girl passed, I asked a very creative friend who does such things create a "memorial bead" for her: http://hollysfolly.com/memorialbeads/<br />(there's a link somewhere there about the Allie bead. That's the one.) It's been a wonderful way for me to keep Allie's memory close while still moving on. It might be worth considering -- a Max bead for you to always keep near you.rottroverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12040584911302243673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-19213493209070731952010-05-31T18:13:50.618+02:002010-05-31T18:13:50.618+02:00We send you our hugs, Caryl. Aside from Tammy, Tof...We send you our hugs, Caryl. Aside from Tammy, Toffee, Tommy, Mr.Boss & your family, you got us here. We know we can only do so much so we cross our paws that you get to adjust.<br /><br />Take your time, we will abide by your pace.<br /><br />-Fudgie, Princess, Frappie, Mocha, Sugar, Wai-Pai, Wai-Max & the PiappiesPiappies Worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17913096993511114336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-62991918700790101932010-05-31T09:21:08.822+02:002010-05-31T09:21:08.822+02:00The photo of Tammy sitting alone in the passage a...The photo of Tammy sitting alone in the passage and the forlorn look in her pretty brown eyes is almost too much to bear! :( I am sure you need her as much as she needs you..<br /><br />As for your question on how long does the heaviness of heartbreak last, I have learnt that it lasts forever... although the inital sharp pain will fade away, it becomes a dull ache that you somehow will learn to live with. Sadly, grief is the price we pay for love... <br /><br />Thinking of you and your furkids...Huskee and Hersheyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15284037178971952418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-3399589382917117712010-05-31T08:03:15.283+02:002010-05-31T08:03:15.283+02:00It does take time to adjust with the passing of a ...It does take time to adjust with the passing of a special friend and there is no time limit to 'getting over' it. And Time is an excellent healer - one may never totally get over the feeling of loss; however, the pain will ease. Talking about your feelings helps with the healing process.<br /><br />It is like taking two identical photos - put one away in a drawer and hang the other one up against the wall. Some time down the track when you compare the two, you will notice that the one up on the wall has faded a bit in colour. The faded picture is the one that represents the easing of your pain - time has helped lessen the intense ache felt by you.<br /><br />You will cope well, Caryl; you have Tammy-girl as support and the rest of the clan to help in their own little ways. You are in our thoughts and prayers.<br /><br />Take care, Shirley and Paxton x xPaxtonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01766868173851252772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-62371331663227168812010-05-31T07:58:07.379+02:002010-05-31T07:58:07.379+02:00This comment has been removed by the author.Paxtonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01766868173851252772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-85841037713077224122010-05-31T05:06:33.715+02:002010-05-31T05:06:33.715+02:00The tears are starting to fall again from our eyes...The tears are starting to fall again from our eyes as we read the words that you just picked up Max's ashes. Our minds drift back a few years ago, when we also picked up our belovededs ashes (just before we got Tweedles.)<br /> of course our tears are falling again because we are feeling your sorrow, and maybe because our own hearts have not healed totally and maybe they never will, but we do know that little Tweedles let our hearts sing again.<br />Smiles crept on upon our faces, and we were so happy. <br />When you find a heart felt smile <br />creep across your face - you will know your heart is mending- but it may always remain cracked and broken.<br />The sun will shine through those cracks and broken pieces, and guide you on your journey. It is what Max would want you to do- continue his legacy- no matter what that is. You will touch the world- just as Max did.<br />He lives in your heart.<br />Tammys journey is beginning, together- you and her will find a way. The sun will find a way to lead you. The wind will whisper a direction for you to go. Listen and you will know.<br />Bringing the ashes home to us- was a relief. We were all together again.<br />King Toffee likes this snuggle time with the blankys - just as Tweedles does.<br />xoxoxo<br />twees momTweedles -- that's mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01349728497621875670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-16780234599695234852010-05-31T04:52:15.693+02:002010-05-31T04:52:15.693+02:00So many great comments.
The ashes: this is anoth...So many great comments. <br /><br />The ashes: this is another door that must be entered and closed behind you. Everyone has their own unique number of doors to open, enter and close. Once you look back on this time, those were the paths to the progressive healing of that gaping hole in your heart. Spread his ashes, have a pendent made or save some to be with you when your time comes. Whatever gets you through the door and on to the next. There will be many more, but nobody really knows how many or how long. Lean on Tammy without her feeling the weight. You'll both need it.KT and Eastonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05456498552956580863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-88515435897235117032010-05-31T04:26:07.288+02:002010-05-31T04:26:07.288+02:00I think bringing home the ashes is the hardest. I...I think bringing home the ashes is the hardest. I've always promised them that no matter what I would bring them home. ...and I always have.<br /><br />SamHow Sam Sees Ithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08305827999885588071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-62078312727430292902010-05-31T03:54:37.959+02:002010-05-31T03:54:37.959+02:00We found your new blog and will keep on following ...We found your new blog and will keep on following your adventures.<br /><br />Licks,<br />KylieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-21111717467293016572010-05-31T03:23:39.553+02:002010-05-31T03:23:39.553+02:00It's nice to see that you posted this weekend....It's nice to see that you posted this weekend. I was getting concerned. Sent you a couple of notes with no reply.<br /><br />When does the pain go away? I don't think that it ever does but it does begin to ebb and flow. The expanse between the tears becomes larger and larger until one day you realize that you've gone 24 hours without sobbing. <br /><br />Give Miss Tammy a kiss for me...Scout and Freyjahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01423843978069675292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-33041065261144812312010-05-31T02:58:08.802+02:002010-05-31T02:58:08.802+02:00A very beautiful post. We will add your new site t...A very beautiful post. We will add your new site to our list. Hugs and wags, Mistaya and M.O.M.Gail Wilsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00189808314223970576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-91742104519220736702010-05-31T02:02:05.610+02:002010-05-31T02:02:05.610+02:00Time is a great healer but it will never be the sa...Time is a great healer but it will never be the same. Getting the ashes back is one of the hardest things I think to have to deal with. You just have to remember all the wondeful times and remember that Max is running around all healed up. <br />Nothing is easy about life. Loved the pictures of the little dogs. <br />Have a Good week.Anonymoushttp://www.margsanimals.com/kblogsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-70748030458386031742010-05-31T01:33:31.349+02:002010-05-31T01:33:31.349+02:00Woof! Woof! WINTER ... At the moment, I don't ...Woof! Woof! WINTER ... At the moment, I don't miss winter. Currently, enjoying the warm weather n lots of happy times outdoors. Stay Warm. Stay and Be Strong ... for the rest of the gang needs you particularly Tammy. Lots of Golden Woofs, SugarGolden Woofs! SUGARhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15060075282499486355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-84580155665682508032010-05-31T01:21:14.888+02:002010-05-31T01:21:14.888+02:00Should I send some floof?
BTW, Mom's transpor...Should I send some floof?<br /><br />BTW, Mom's transport leg on Sunday was done fur MaxDog and fur our khountry's Memorial Day -<br /><br />Hugz&Khysses,<br />Khyra & Khousin MerdieNAK and The Residents of The Khottage Now With KhattleDog!https://www.blogger.com/profile/12341698924927724604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-90773314246634070722010-05-31T00:19:46.874+02:002010-05-31T00:19:46.874+02:00Cool weather is fine with me. I think Toffee likes...Cool weather is fine with me. I think Toffee likes it too. Good excuse to be king for a day. <br /><br />You know, we miss our furry friends forever. But it is a good thing because we are so happy to have them in our lives. I miss my Angus and Raja a lot, but now I have PeeWee and he is a good pal.<br /><br />Slobbers,<br />MangoDexterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09238751458587219022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-68670579902847603382010-05-30T23:34:15.743+02:002010-05-30T23:34:15.743+02:00I wonder if you could send here some of that cool ...I wonder if you could send here some of that cool weather you are having there!<br />Kisses and hugs<br />LorenzaLorenzahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13869787251617068379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-66013743370290895692010-05-30T23:24:42.919+02:002010-05-30T23:24:42.919+02:00In all our loses we have learned, it takes as long...In all our loses we have learned, it takes as long as it takes.<br />It is not something you can plan to have end.<br />We found that loving those that remain, helps ease our heartbreak for the ones that are gone.<br /><br /><br />Sheila & Bob<br />Mom & Dad to <br />Hamish & Rescue SophieSheila and Bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16135729625488570448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-31809056057270018182010-05-30T23:04:27.789+02:002010-05-30T23:04:27.789+02:00It will get easier. Time as they say is a great he...It will get easier. Time as they say is a great healer. Poor Tammy looks desolate and must Miss Max so much too. Hope your heartbreak feels a little easier soon.. Hugs GJ and Carol x Angel Ginger Jasperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15332639287513279097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-30840892906995981262010-05-30T22:13:25.646+02:002010-05-30T22:13:25.646+02:00Love the pictures! Toffee looks very comfy and Ta...Love the pictures! Toffee looks very comfy and Tammy looks like she just wants to be with you. The heartbreak for me lasted quite some long time. It lessens with time but it's always with me to some degree deep down. Getting the ashes back for me was really heartbreaking and I have yet to spread them or do anything with them except make memorials with the pictures of each one next to the ashes and whatnots to honor them. Lots of love to you, Debbie and Holly♥I am Holly♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/15463732288448178247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-21008452877073651422010-05-30T20:57:55.212+02:002010-05-30T20:57:55.212+02:00For me time changed the hurtful memories to fond m...For me time changed the hurtful memories to fond moments of the most heartfelt love. My Sugar left a hole in my heart that I knew, at the time, would never heal. Yet, here I am with 6 more filling my life. I think I will always love her in a different kind of special way - she was my Max.Mrs. JPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05141245412356555999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-11035422222241273742010-05-30T20:48:02.293+02:002010-05-30T20:48:02.293+02:00I had my Nikki cremated too and have instructions ...I had my Nikki cremated too and have instructions with my family for her ashes to one day be mixed with my own (and of course, my other babies, whether they pass before or after me will be mixed in as well, I don't want my ashes scattered until we are all together again, a little strange, I know, but it somehow gives me comfort=I also have my babies written up in my will and they must be cared for in the way they have become accustomed in order to get my money!!)...The heartbreak never ends, Caryl, at least not in my experience; it lessens in severity, but it never leaves you because their love never leaves you and you miss them with every thought of them...I know you and Tammy give each other solace through your shared sorrow and I'm sure you are really a wonderful comfort to each other during this difficult trasition...Blessings of peace and love to you both.Jacquelinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08682861905817173908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-31093651541709285342010-05-30T20:02:49.928+02:002010-05-30T20:02:49.928+02:00I don't know that the ache ever totally leaves...I don't know that the ache ever totally leaves, but it becomes a part of you, comforting in a way, because it is a sign of the sweet memories. The day will come when you can smile and laugh more at the memories, than tear up.D.K. Wallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04708239686660301305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6339087872750174307.post-53392724253462217002010-05-30T19:26:27.187+02:002010-05-30T19:26:27.187+02:00We don't think the heartbreak ever goes away, ...We don't think the heartbreak ever goes away, but the load does get lighter with time. Tammy is just so beautiful, it is so good to see her wanting to be with you so much. And Toffee, more power to the King.<br /><br />Woos - Phantom, Thunder, and Ciara♥♥ The OP Pack ♥♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/07539957828544908415noreply@blogger.com