GREETINGS FROM SOUTH AFRICA!
Sending lotsaluv
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Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Tuesday, October 4, 2011
TOBY's WELCOME...
GREETINGS FROM SOUTH AFRICA!
MAXMOM here...
If you ever come to visit us, brace yourself for a surprise.
Our dear, sweet hooligan Toby has conjured up a rude welcome for anyone who cares to venture through our front door.
Don’t ever say I didn’t warn you!
As the door creaks open, Toby is immediately alert. Visitors?
He leaps up and scrambles to check out the talent.
“Hello, welcome! Please come in,” we say.
These few words are Toby’s cue. His own goal has suddenly become critical. He turns, back into the house, and starts romping around like a lunatic – up and down the passage in unhindered delight, working his entire entourage up into a barking frenzy.
“Woof! Woof!”
We all look at each other; knowingly and helplessly. Suddenly, his ‘happy dance’ is diverted to the kitchen.
He HAS to retrieve his B-I-G blanket now!
There’s one challenge however. Toby’s blanket is about 2mx1.5m big - it’s large and cumbersome and difficult to hold in his mouth. This doesn’t deter him in the least. He reaches down and scrunches up the fabric in his big jaw, and then turns back towards the action. In all this time, our poor visitor has stood spellbound, trying to make sense of all the commotion.
Our poor, unsuspecting ‘visitor’s first reaction is to take a step backwards in alarm. Toby’s eyes meet his. My hooligan surges forward - still with his blanket in his mouth - while our visitor is rooted to the spot.
Toby then purposefully and rudely manoeuvres himself around the poor person’s legs – still with his long blanket in tow. And then, quickly, he weaves a few more efficient circles – effectively wrapping him up and leaving the poor guy totally immobilised.
“Woof! Woof!”
Job complete, he stares at me.
Job complete, he stares at me.
Toby’s explanation:
“I know you like him, so I gift-wrapped him especially for you!”
Visitors beware!
You will be loved to death!
Sending lotsaluv
Monday, October 3, 2011
Rainy days and frustrated doggies...
GREETINGS FROM SOUTH AFRICA!
MAXMOM here...
We've had some lovely rain over the weekend. The world around us is sparkling and fresh again. But it did keep us indoors for most of the weekend, where we spent our time watching TV - especially some of the exciting rugby fixtures in New Zealand! "GO BOKKE!" is the general sentiment in our household.
(For uninitiated international readers, "Go Bokke!" is a chant to our Springbok rugby players to "fetch" that trophy!)
But for the dogs; being kept indoors is a most frustrating time:
Toby got his teeth into a roller towel...
..and then settling for cleaning out a yoghurt container...
Aunt Tam spent a good deal of her time peering at the mirror:
"The King" soon tried his luck too...
At this time of the year when the heat picks up and the humidity increases, King Toffee's obsessive paw-licking takes on new meaning. Unfortunately he's starting to do damage to his paw-pads, so we've had to take emergency measures. Usually this involves giving his paws a thorough wash, then drying them well with a hairdryer and then bandaging them up, so that he can't lick them. Thanks to our prospective Vet - who is on holiday at home at the moment - "the King" is the proud owner of a new pair of baby socks, which have been duly secured with elastoplast to prevent his obsessive licking.
It seems to be working, but there's never a guarantee when it comes to Toffee. In his fourteen years, he's learnt a few tricks himself. Only time will tell who wins this round.
Toby and Tammy eventually decided that enough was enough and coersed us into taking them for a walk without "His Kingship". I grabbed some poo-packets, some treats and called Asta's mom to join us there.
The park looks beautiful - all sorts of beautiful foliage to admire.
Soon some other dogs joined in the fun - a visit to Lourie Park always means that we'll meet up with other canine companions.
Thank you again, to everyone who participated in yesterday's LIVESTRONG campaign. What a privilege it was to be part of this world-wide awareness drive. Thank you again to Andrea and Charmaine for allowing us to share their stories. It's heartwarming to know that there are so many people around who are fighting for a cancer-free world.
Sending lotsaluv and wishing everyone a really happy week.
...and yes, I'm battling to sleep at night.
"Wherever MAXDOG goes, let it do good!"
Saturday, October 1, 2011
LiveStrong Day 2011: 3 Special tributes: LEON BOTHA, DEBBIE ELS and MAXDOG
GREETINGS FROM SOUTH AFRICA!
MAXMOM here...
Today is a special day:
LIVESTRONG DAY.
Although there are many Cancer soldiers around the world, we have chosen to honor two special people, in particular today, who are "Living Strong" in their fight against Cancer.
The following tributes are written by their friends and families, with the object of encouraging them in their fight, and also encouraging others who battle with this dreadful disease. It is through such strength of spirit, that we are all able to strive to
LIVE LIFE TO THE MAX!
To ALL the cancer suffers out there: Please know that today, we stand in solidarity with you. We salute your courage and your strength. And we are grateful for the lessons that you teach us every day.
You are not alone in this fight!
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Our first tribute:
The following tributes are written by their friends and families, with the object of encouraging them in their fight, and also encouraging others who battle with this dreadful disease. It is through such strength of spirit, that we are all able to strive to
LIVE LIFE TO THE MAX!
To ALL the cancer suffers out there: Please know that today, we stand in solidarity with you. We salute your courage and your strength. And we are grateful for the lessons that you teach us every day.
You are not alone in this fight!
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Our first tribute:
I have been friends with the Botha family for approximately 20 years. Indeed my own children have grown up with theirs.
Andrea and Leon have four beautiful children who recently celebrated their
collective 21st birthday party
(Yes, you guessed - they are QUADRUPLETS!
Here is a picture of them all at the children's 21st birthday party in April this year - a wonderful, happy family occasion:
L to R: (Mom)Andrea, Kirsten, Candice, Wesley, Calvin, (Dad)Leon
and (guide dog) Dulce.
For a while now, Leon, the amazing dad of this family, has been receiving aggressive cancer therapy and has become iconic in his fight to Live Strong. Their whole family has been amazing in their ability to draw strength from one another at this difficult time.
As a tribute, Andrea has written an open letter to Leon.
Thank you, Andrea, for sharing this personal, private space - so that others may draw strength from you. You too, are iconic of 'Living Strong'. We admire your courage and are grateful for the incredible example which you are to all of us.
We love you, Andrea!
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Recently, Andrea and Leon's son Calvin, also composed a song for his dad.
Many of my readers are aware that I take my dogs walking most afternoons.
Our favourite place to walk is
LOURIE PARK
...It's a beautiful, tranquil place, not far from my home.
One of my fellow-walkers, Charmaine, has asked that we put up
a tribute for her friend, Debbie.
(Written by Dr Charmaine Elliot)
This story is about that thin silver lining on that cloud…
After my heart attack in 2006, I hobbled off to Loerie doggie Park with my dogs. I had strict instructions from my Dietician to walk every day. And that was when I met
Debbie Els
and her three canine companions.
Debbie’s sparkling blue eyes and a broad, friendly smile was the first thing I noticed.
I discovered that she was a cancer patient, in remission.
Debbie walked her trio of dogs – Amy, Zazoo and Tyson - every day until the time when the cunning cancer cells in her body found a new spot to hide. She threw the ball for Zazoo with endless patience, fed endless titbits to greedy Amy (who her husband, Manie had saved from the Kya Sands informal settlement), and allowed Tyson to forage and explore.
Debbie spearheaded the original clean-up campaign, arriving every day with a shopping packet to pick up years of disgusting litter. Nine months later Loerie Park was litter-free.
Sadly, the recurring cycle of increased cancer counts, chemo, radiation, nausea, fatigue and assorted ‘side-effects,’ like deafness, sensitive skin and general poorly-ness, meant that Debbie could no longer keep up with her own walks in the park. This didn’t mean that she disappeared from our lives. Quite the contrary, Debbie continues to send emails and sms’s – amusing, inspirational and informative messages, which I’ve come to treasure:
Here is the flavour of Debbie's messages:
My Dear Brave Husband,
Where do I begin, this has been one rollercoaster year.
The 13th October 2010 will forever be etched in my mind as the day our lives fell apart. Yes sweet man that was the day you were diagnosed with oesophageal cancer. The sheer magnitude of the news knocked us for a six, but once we got over the initial shock it was your sheer determination and willpower to beat this dreadful disease that has kept us all going.
The prognosis was not good, but you were given a life line and you embarked on a radical radiation and chemotherapy course. Every single day was a huge challenge for you, but not once did you ever complain, you just remained focused and as positive and strong as humanly possible. When things came to a head and you landed in hospital for 5 weeks, you kept on fighting the hardest battle ever and you came out victorious. That was one of the proudest days of my life, the day you left hospital with the will to live and continue the battle.
Life was good for a few months, as we were given the good news that the original tumour had disappeared entirely – the sheer joy and elation was overwhelming. Sadly that joy came to a grinding halt in July when we were once again faced with the devastating news that a fresh tumour had grown in your oesophagus and shoulder. Why, was the most obviously question I asked, but you Sweet Man, never asked that question, you just picked yourself up and embarked on yet another 5 week session of radiation. You are presently in your 3rd session of chemo therapy, with another 3 sessions still to go, taking us all the way to the 7th December 2011. You came through the radiation with flying colours, still managing to go into the office daily, but this darn chemo is taking its toll on your already weakened body.
Oh how I pray for you to be entirely pain free and healthy again. I miss our times on the motorbike and our special precious time together. You are totally and utterly absorbed in this battle and I understand entirely, but oh how I miss the “old” Leon, I miss your laugh, your funny side, you singing to your favourite song, our happy family outings, I could go on forever. I pray for that all to return in good time and with your sheer determination and positivity, I am confident that the good times will once again return.
You have been a pillar of strength throughout our 25 years of marriage. You financially supported our family on your own all these years allowing me the opportunity to spend every day with my delightful children. We have raised our quadruplets to grow up to become beautiful, well adjusted 21 year olds. How proud you were the day they all turned 21, the speech at their 21st was truly amazing and very special to all of us.
A day never goes by without you thanking me for everything I have done for you this past year. My sweet husband you do not need to thank me for anything, I do it because I love and care deeply for you and I married you “for better or for worse”. This is the least I can do for you after ALL you have done for me and the children. You are one of the proudest most humble men I have ever had the pleasure of knowing and it is you I need to thank for showing me how to appreciate life and how to remain positive and focused no matter what. You are so strong, courageous and oh so brave, very seldom do you have a weak moment which is so admirable. So Sweet Man you are the one to be thanked not me.
In closing let me once again reiterate my wish, and that is for you to be totally healed and for us to be able to pick up our lives where we left off last year on the 13th October.
Much love and appreciation.
Your loving wife always,
Andrea
Recently, Andrea and Leon's son Calvin, also composed a song for his dad.
The family would like to share Calvin's special tribute to his dad...
The son is entitled:
"WE'LL MAKE IT THROUGH."
(by Calvin Botha)
We love you Leon!!! Hang in there and...
Live Strong!!!====================================xXx======================================
Our second tribute:...
Many of my readers are aware that I take my dogs walking most afternoons.
Our favourite place to walk is
LOURIE PARK
One of my fellow-walkers, Charmaine, has asked that we put up
a tribute for her friend, Debbie.
Debbie is a special lady who was partly responsible for the fact that we have such a beautiful place to shed our daily stresses.
Here is Charmaine's tribute to
Debbie Els...
Debbie Els...
This story is about that thin silver lining on that cloud…
After my heart attack in 2006, I hobbled off to Loerie doggie Park with my dogs. I had strict instructions from my Dietician to walk every day. And that was when I met
Debbie Els
and her three canine companions.
Debbie’s sparkling blue eyes and a broad, friendly smile was the first thing I noticed.
I discovered that she was a cancer patient, in remission.
Debbie walked her trio of dogs – Amy, Zazoo and Tyson - every day until the time when the cunning cancer cells in her body found a new spot to hide. She threw the ball for Zazoo with endless patience, fed endless titbits to greedy Amy (who her husband, Manie had saved from the Kya Sands informal settlement), and allowed Tyson to forage and explore.
The bits and pieces that Debbie shared about her experience with cancer seemed far removed from this positive, warm, approachable person who walked beside me. Colostomy bags and reverse colostomy procedures were quite incongruent with her tranquil, collected demeanour.
In no time Debbie - with her positive energy - attracted a following, and the Loerie Park tradition of walking in a ‘troupe’ of 12 or more dog owners and to double the number of dogs was born . This tradition continues to this day as hordes of dog-owners enjoy the park every afternoon.
Sadly, the recurring cycle of increased cancer counts, chemo, radiation, nausea, fatigue and assorted ‘side-effects,’ like deafness, sensitive skin and general poorly-ness, meant that Debbie could no longer keep up with her own walks in the park. This didn’t mean that she disappeared from our lives. Quite the contrary, Debbie continues to send emails and sms’s – amusing, inspirational and informative messages, which I’ve come to treasure:
Here is the flavour of Debbie's messages:
• ‘all going well here. Cud do with a MEGA-Hz battery recharge for this draggy ol’ bod. Pity we’re not actually kitted out with power outlets or plug sites. Other than moving in sloooow motion, all dandy’.
• ‘Wiggle those fingers, wiggle those toes, wear blommies in your hair and glitter on your nose. Its Spring Day tday So wear sumfing pink Then u and mother nature will be pretty much in sync
*Chest bumps are STILL a mystery...if malignant will do radiation....other results are great in liver, lungs, lymph. Return to Park ever closer!
* Bitava flubberup. The chest lump is malignant. It GREW during chemo. Whata cheek!...
• So far so good with radiation. Little nauseous, lottle fatigued...
* Hlllooo Darling Delight, I be roasting and frying on schedule! The lump feels smaller already. Very eina....no pain, no gain hey! Hope you’re njoying the teasing promise of summer weather.
* Hlllooo Darling Delight, I be roasting and frying on schedule! The lump feels smaller already. Very eina....no pain, no gain hey! Hope you’re njoying the teasing promise of summer weather.
And so Debbie's positive spirit remains part of our daily lives – remembering birthdays, popping in through our electronic media - and reminding us what courage and bravery really means.
Thank you, Debbie, for what you have come to mean in our lives and for what you teach us. Your strength of spirit endures in those who love you. Live Strong!
Charmaine
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Our final tribute today is to my own special heart-dog:
In May 2010, I lost my heartdog MAX to cancer when he was only ten years old.
During his 107 days of grace, Max taught me many things but, most of all, he taught me to
"LIVE LIFE TO THE MAX "
(the name of this blog)
Today, I would also like to share a few of
MAXDOG's life lessons
- as a tribute to all those who fight cancer - both animals and humans....
The 'life lessons' which follow are primarily for animals, but they uncannily reflect on our human ideals as well. I hope you enjoy them...
...by doing what you can for your owner. Whether it’s picking up socks, underwear or simply being with them, do it with devotion and enthusiasm!
• PLAY HARD!...
...this provides entertainment to the peeps, enjoyment for yourself
and keeps them focussed on you!
• TEST THE BOUNDARIES and CELEBRATE YOUR HEALTH!...
...see how far you can run, how high you can jump, how loud you can bark and how long you can sleep...and be grateful!
• CELEBRATE LIFE!...
• CELEBRATE LIFE!...
...Smell the wind! Read the news! Soak up the sun and enjoy good company!
• MAKE FRIENDS!...
...Remember the only thing you will eventually leave behind when you leave this earth
is a legacy of your relationships!
• LIVE IN THE PRESENT MOMENT!...
...Don’t let the worries of others get you down or the worries of what is yet to come. Your worries will only diminish the joys of the present! Consider simply lying in the sun!
• DON’T PASS OFF THE OPPORTUNITY OF DOING GOOD FOR OTHERS!....
...pick up that sock, or sit quietly with the peeps whilst they share their troubles.
• WORK ON BEHALF OF THE PACK TOO!...
...Together you will be more than on your own!
• RELISH THE LOVE THAT COMES YOUR WAY!...
...It is precious and one of the most genuine things in life!
• DEFY ALL EXPECTATIONS!...
...Including the Vet’s if need be!
Never let anyone tell you that you “Can’t” do something!
...the wisdom of others is important to recognise!
• INSIST ON YOUR DAILY WALK!...
...and learn to read the human signs that it is time for that walk!
• ACCEPT THAT YOU WILL MAKE MISTAKES!...
...They make you stronger and give you the necessary wisdom for life!
•BE PATIENT!...
...When things don’t happen fast enough, lie down and wait!
• SHARE YOURSELF
It makes people understand you.
• REMEMBER: THE MOST VALUABLE GIFT YOU CAN GIVE ANYONE IS TIME!!!
• REMEMBER: THE MOST VALUABLE GIFT YOU CAN GIVE ANYONE IS TIME!!!
(Us dogs know this, right!?!)
...It makes them happy and you get their attention!
• BE HAPPY AND THE WHOLE WORLD WILL BE HAPPY WITH YOU!...
...If you pine and are grumpy... most dogs will be left in a corner!
• BE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE!...
...and don’t be shy to show it!
• TELL YOUR HUMANS NOT TO WORRY WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE!...
...we love them anyway!
• SHARE YOUR WISDOM!...
...Those who really need it will take it and use it for the greater good.
...Those who don’t need it, will leave it and you won’t have lost anything yourself!
• SHARE YOUR WARMTH WITH OTHERS!...
...You weren’t given fur for nothing!
• EVERYONE HAS A MASTER!...
...Choose yours well!
LOVE YOUR FRIENDS WITH ABSOLUTE ABANDON!!!
...and they will multiply!
And lastly but most importantly...
• IT TAKES A LIFETIME TO LEARN THE LESSONS OF LIFE!...
...Don’t pretend to know it all!
Sending all my love to the amazing people and animals around the world who rise to
LIVE STRONG
with this dreadful disease.
LIVE STRONG
with this dreadful disease.
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