Saturday, December 10, 2011

IS IT WORTH IT?

GREETINGS FROM SOUTH AFRICA!
MAXMOM here...

Suddenly the house is empty. All is quite and reality sets in. It’s been a hard couple of months – committed, determined and endless hours of hard work towards the finish line of the MAXDOG journey. The past two weeks have hardly allowed my feet to touch the ground. It’s been surreal.

But now I am alone – and it’s a Saturday night without my precious loved ones. The contrast is shattering – like when you hit that ‘red’ stop button on a treadmill. Suddenly your world comes to an abrupt halt and you feel like you want to fall over.

You see, my family are at the seaside as I write this – sharing precious time together. And me? I am sitting here - alone in my homesickness. I really am missing them.
You might well ask…Why this situation?

What was the prize for bargaining away this time together with my family? Why would someone choose this when they can be with their loved ones? Maybe my choice wasn’t such a wise one after all.

The value of time together is unmeasurable. Good relationships and companionable, precious moments are treasured more than all the diamonds in the world. One only realises just how valuable it is when they are suddenly absent.

So what bargained it away?

The answer: A short, 6-8 minute interview on TELEVISION for the benefit of MAXDOG.

Is this fair bargain?

Somehow, as I sit here in the deafening silence of the house, with just the dogs to keep me company and waiting for Tuesday, I am not so sure I made the right choice.

Friday, December 9, 2011

CARYL'S SPEECH & MAXDOG UPDATE

GREETINGS FROM SOUTH AFRICA!
MAXMOM here...
Hi there to all my friends across the globe!
I believe a number of bloggers have already received their copies of MAXDOG in the post already.  I am so happy that they are arriving and really hope that you enjoy my book.
There is so much happening here.  The first article about MAXDOG appeared in one of our Afrikaans nation-wide newspapers this morning.  If you would like to see the article,
please click HERE (It is in Afrikaans)


Tomorrow my family are leaving for our annual seaside holiday.  The bad news is that I have to remain at home with the doggies.  But the good news is the reason for me staying at home:
On Tuesday 13th December I am scheduled to appear on television: ETV's Sunrise show - interviewed by Sindy Mabe.  This really is a privilege and I am looking forward to it - although admittedly, I am a little daunted. (Yes, MAXDOG appeared on the BBC in 2010, but I've never been on live television before. That was pre-recorded footage)  If you are in South Africa on Tuesday... please tune to in to ETV at 07h30.

Well, today, I thought I'd give you the inside of my own speech at the book launch on Wednesday this past week.  I also have many pictures from the evening.  You can see them in one of the albums on
Please come and visit to see all the pictures - it's difficult to paste them all up on this blog as well.

So, here's my own speech from the launch of


Good evening ladies and gentlemen and welcome. I would like to extend a special welcome to our guest of honour this evening – Rudi – MAXDOG’s nephew. Rudi is a 7yr old Golden Retriever with a direct genetic link to MAXDOG.

He is a fully trained therapy dog and is accustomed to environments like this. Please feel free to interact with Rudi. I’m sure he’d love to say hello…

Thank you, Zena, for bringing Rudi along to share the evening with us.

MAXDOG INTRODUCED:

After two years of extremely hard and emotional work, it is a great pleasure for me to formally introduce my book to you this evening. Thank you so much for joining me in what is, essentially, a "MAXDOG FAMILY" celebration. In the past few days I have received many messages from across the globe from my various blogging-buddies who are also part of this world-wide
 "MAXDOG FAMILY."


MAXDOG DESCRIPTION:

MAXDOG is the 10year life-journey of a Golden Retriever who touched my heart and the hearts of hundreds of people across the world, through his blog: “The adventures of MAXDOG in South Africa”. This is a story about a remarkable dog, but it is also my personal story about my relationship with my ‘heart-dog’ and how Max assisted me on the path to healing.

WHY MAXDOG? WHAT GOT ME TO WRITE IT?

I remember a day sometime in March last year (2010) when, out of pure fatigue, I took a moment and sat down on a comfortable chair in our lounge. In his usual way, Max followed me, slumped to the floor and placed his head on my feet. It was a mystical moment: everything felt so unreal. There was no getting away from the fact that Max was dying, but it was all so confusing because he had already passed his two week life-expectancy and we had no idea of how long he was going to live. The blogging world had also risen up to deliver a Tsunami of support to us as a family as we faced the reality of having to say goodbye to our canine companion. In a few short months, Max had touched hearts across the world with ‘his’ blog and the cyber-world had mobilised into an unprecedented show of support.

So, as I stared at him that day, I was overwhelmed with love for this dog. I knew there and then that I had no option but to write his story – the full story of the dog behind the blog. I didn’t want his short life to disappear into obscurity. Max had done some amazing things during his ten years with us, not least of which was his devotion to my own healing. There was no debate – I wanted the world to understand how much he’d touched my life. I simply had to write the book.

MOTIVATION/SYMBOLISM OF MAX'S CANDLE

… So I got up off my chair, retrieved a CANDLE and lit it. I put it on my coffee table in my lounge. I promised myself that the candle wouldn’t go out until I had finished the book. Well, today we have the book and I am depleted of candles.
It was a long journey. It’s been many hours of painstaking and emotional work but the tribute to my dog is finally complete. MAXDOG is immortalised in print!

MY HOPE:

… is that this story will touch the hearts of my readers in the same way that Max touched my heart. My hope too is that it will give voice to the powerful relationships which form between companion animals and their owners. I have opened up my personal story about my battle with anxiety and depression – an affliction which is often shrouded in taboo. 121 million people around the world suffer from this debilitating illness and many do so in secret.
The time has come for the world to talk about this condition – openly - and to eradicate the stigma attached to it.
I hope my story will help with this cause.

THANK YOU

To everyone who has had a hand in the book and to all the people who have come to support me tonight. I am so grateful to my husband and two incredible daughters who have allowed me to share our very personal story.

So now I am going to turn this speech over to one of my special daughters who will share her own point-of-view of the MAXDOG journey. 
(Yesterday's post, but here is a picture of Robyn giving her speech)
Sending lotsaluv to all my readers and the amazing friends I have made through blogging.
Enjoy your weekend.

 


























Thursday, December 8, 2011

MY DAUGHTER'S AMAZING 'MAXDOG BOOK LAUNCH' SPEECH

Dear friends and readers across the world,
  last night we celebrated the OFFICIAL LAUNCH of my book MAXDOG.  Many of my blogging-buddies around the world were there 'in-spirit' and for this reason, I would love to share my daughter's amazing speech with you all.  This speech was interspersed with the reading of snippets from the book. (Which I have excluded in this blogpost)
Enjoy....

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Good evening Ladies and Gentleman and thank you so much for sharing this very special evening with my mom and my family. For those of you that don’t know me, my name is Robyn or “Emma” as I’m referred to in the book, and I am Caryl’s youngest daughter.

Tonight we are celebrating my mom’s very special achievement of publishing her first book, Maxdog. In her book, my mom shares her truly inspiring story of how a slobbery, boisterous, bad breathed golden retriever changed her life.

Now, I’m a vet student, and as somebody going into the veterinary profession, I see a lot of people, such as vets, changing the lives of animals. But it is a really special occasion, when I get to witness how an animal can change their owner’s life, particularly when the owner, like my mom, adamantly refused to want the pet in the first place.

I remember the day when Max came into our lives. As a young ten year old I had a passion for animals, something I share with my mom, and it was particularly exciting for me that we would be getting a new puppy. This excitement, however, was one my mother refused to share. She was absolutely and truly determined that this would not be her dog, that it would be under the complete responsibility of my dad and that she would have very little to do with it, even to the point of refusing to come and fetch the little puppy with the rest of the family.

So.. standing tonight at the launch of her book about her beautiful golden boy, its obvious how that plan turned out.

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So the golden boy managed to work his way into my mother’s heart, and managed to find a solid, comfy place to settle down there. Within months, it was obvious that Max was no longer my dad’s dog- as originally intended, but rather the devoted shadow of my mother.


-----(reading)-----

Having a Golden Retriever in the house wasn’t without its quirks. We had become accustomed to the thick layer of golden hair that now coated the furniture; to the slobber that artistically covered our legs and arms after any encounter with Max and to the rather embarrassing occasions of having our underwear strewn across the lawn for all our guests to see - because Max had made it his personal mission in life to redistribute our laundry.

But despite his many quirks, Max was a family dog and dealing with his idiosyncrasies was well worth it for being able to see the light that Max brought to the darkness of my mother’s depression. My mom described her experience perfectly…

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The golden boy had brought a silver lining to the hard times in my mother’s life and had touched her heart and the hearts of my family. It seemed the fluffy monster had too much love to give and it wasn’t long before my mom was using him to reach out and touch the lives of people across the world.

Now as the youngest in my family, there are certain pressures of being the most technologically advanced so it was a bit of an interesting moment when I came home to find my excited mother typing extravagantly on her computer where she had created a new blog dedicated to the life of her dog.

I knew that my mom loved her dog more than most owners do, and I knew that she had dedicated a lot of her time and energy into spoiling him rotten, so I won’t lie when I tell you that this new adventure initially seemed a bit extreme. I mean I barely knew anyone in my 'technology- driven' generation that had a blog, let alone a blog dedicated entirely to their dog.

But despite my reservations on the idea, I saw how much my mom enjoyed writing and sharing her pooch with the world. Reading over her blog, I admit I had to swallow my fair share of humble pie when I saw just how inspired people across the world were to share in my mother’s stories, even the heart wrenching ones of when our special dog became inflicted with cancer.

One young person, an autistic boy in Ireland had taken a liking to my mom’ s blog, and it was so inspiring to see the good it had brought him, by allowing his parents to help him deal with life and death issues (which are particularly difficult for an autistic boy to understand).

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I had never believed that a dog could reach out and touch hearts in the way that Max and my mom’s personification of Max through her blog did. It was a sad, sad day when we lost our dear boy after all the struggles, but even in his last “Days of Grace” he continued to be a very special boy, lovingly committed to my mom and those around him.

It may seem strange for someone who has never experienced a furry friend to understand the deep relationship that an owner can have with a dog. But through looking at this amazing story that’s described in MAXDOG, its clear that animals can touch human’s lives in an unbelievable way - just as Max touched all of our lives.

To end off I’d like to say a very special congratulations to my mother on this amazing achievement. I know you have worked so hard and it has been a rough ride to share this personal story. I am really proud of you and I know that 'MAXDOG'Maxdog” will continue to reach out and teach people to “live life to the Max”

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Should you wish to purchase a copy of MAXDOG,
Please click HERE
or email me at:

Sending lotsaluv

 
ps. Sorry that there are no pictures today...things are hectic here...:)

Saturday, December 3, 2011

MAXDOG's a BUZZ OF EXCITEMENT!

GREETINGS FROM SOUTH AFRICA!
MAXMOM here...
Hello there to all my friends and supporters across the world!

Please can I take a moment to say a special "THANK YOU" to you all for standing by me during this hectic time?!
  Like a cloud, my life seems to be drifting past me at the moment. There aren't enough hours in the day and it feels like I'm watching myself from a distance.  

But today, I need to interact with my blogging buddies (I'm really missing you!), so I thought I'd simply WRITE! Hopefully one or two pictures will suffice, because there is a lot to tell. 

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After a few days of intermittent rain-showers, the world looks sparkling again.  Even the birds are celebrating in the garden.  Our ever-present weaver bird is conscientiously  refurbishing his harem...again! 

And the "Christmas Beetles" (or Cicadas) are purposefully convincing me that I have a severe case of Tinnitus. Geesh, they are loud!  This is most definitely a sign that the festive season is upon us and I haven't even started my Christmas shopping yet.

Toby is a darling!.  He cuddles up on the bed next to me just as the dawn is breaking - to receive his early morning biscuit (or two, if he pleads long enough).  Aging 'Aunt Tam' and 'The King' diligently wait their turn too. I reach for the tin and select a few.  Their eyes are instantly alert. They know that sound well.

That biscuit didn't even touch sides, I think.  Toby jumps off the bed to prod Aunt Tam into an early morning game of 'Rough and Tumble'.  She's too old now for the serious stuff, so she gives him a cold shoulder.  Reluctantly, he settles on the floor to wait for me to consider that it's breakfast-time.  Every so often a frustrated "mmmhumpf!" escapes from his vocal chords. He stares at me.  It's time to get up.

This past week has been unreal.  My efficient publicist, HELEN HOLYOAKE from HELCO PROMOTIONS has secured an interview for me on 'ETV's Sunrise show' with Sindy Mabe, on Tuesday 13Dec at 07h30.   Me, on television? Unbelievable!  Six years ago, I could hardly enter a shopping centre, let alone consider appearing on television. Yet here I am today with one of the biggest buzzes happening around me  - a buzz that I could never have imagined.  I've even had to forfeit half of my family sea-side holiday for this appointment, but I have their full encouragement and will be flying down to join them on Tuesday afternoon after the interview.  I am looking forward to this whole experience. 

On Tuesday this coming week, a journalist from "Die Beeld" newspaper is coming to our house to have a chin-wag with me.  I will hopefully be able to answer all her questions, (whilst whispering to Toby to be on his best behaviour, lol.!)  This particular Afrikaans newspaper has a circulation of approx. 500 000 readers, so this is a real privilege.  I'm rightly apprehensive, but admittedly looking forward to the experience too.

Then on Wednesday evening, the 7th December,  it's time for celebration...
MAXDOG's official BOOK LAUNCH!!!
at
Crn 9th Street and Rustenburg Road
MELVILLE
18h00 for 18h30
If you are in Johannesburg on that evening, please consider joining us. You'll get some interesting 'insider' information about MAXDOG and will be able to meet "RUDI", our guest of honour.  :) (Rudi is MAXDOG's Grandfather!)

(Please see the invitation at the top of this blog for more information about the launch)
I look forward to seeing you therel!

The sunbeams are lightening up the garden as I write this.  Everything is new and fresh. I think it's time to "put my money where my mouth is", take a page out of MAXDOG's book and to...
"SEIZE THE DAY!"


Sending lotsaluv and wishing you all a wonderful, happy and relaxing weekend.

A NOTE:
If you would like to see some REALLY BEAUTIFUL pictures of my daughter's recent trip to the Pilanesburg Nature Reserve, please click:
HERE



Wednesday, November 30, 2011

MAXDOG's BOOK LAUNCH HAS A GUEST OF HONOUR!

HAPPY GREETINGS FROM SOUTH AFRICA!
MAXMOM here...

Above: A 'congratulatory' bouquet from one of my supporters.
...thank you Weinerlein family!!!

A happy 'hello' to all my fur-buddies around the world.

Whew! Things are abuzz here...my head is in a tail-spin...I'm a little unsteady with all that's happening surrounding the launch of my precious book


If you would like to visit my publisher's website, and specifically the page where you can purchase MAXDOG, please click
Boy, I am amazed at the incredible support I am getting from around the country.
Thank you friends for your emails! Thank you for your purchases! Thank you for your encouragement!
 I am so blessed by you all.

500 copies were printed and published on Thursday last week. 
About 250 of those copies are GONE!!!
...to various sources:

Some have been sold/distributed to some of my loyal readers and supporters (A BIG thank you!), some have gone to my publicist and 100 copies have gone to the distributor for the various orders received from bookstores around the country.  I'm spending most of my day answering emails and queries, and trying not to drop any catches. It's fun, but it's tough  :)
Please forgive me, during this hectic time, for not visiting many blogs.  I am sure that you will understand - my special blogging buddies - ?


The official launch of MAXDOG is on Tuesday next week.

If you are in Johannesburg on that evening...
YOU ARE INVITED!!!

Please come and join us in celebrating this milestone! I know its going to be a fabulous evening: Snacks, wine, MAXDOG books and the opportunity to get some 'insider' information about this very personal story.  I would love to see you all there and will be honoured by your attendance.
So, will you be there?


It's going to be a book launch with a bit of a 'difference':
We have a special announcement....we have a...
 'guest of honour' ....

(drum roll).....

"RUDI"

 
Yes, Rudi is the celebrity for the evening.  He is a 7 year old Golden Retriever, with a genetic link to MAXDOG (Rudi is Max's nephew), and has been an active therapy dog for a number of years. He is highly affable and has been part of the 'Paws for People' (East Rand Unit) for a number of years. (It goes without say that 'Rudi' is a fully trained therapy dog) He is accustomed to small spaces and crowds of people and is a delightful , interactive animal with a beautiful temperament. Rudi will be adding the 'special touch' to the evening. This sweet golden retriever has done a lot of work at a special needs school called "Little Eden" on the East Rand. He is also a show dog and is the grandfather of my current Golden Retriever, Toby.
I will be honoured to have RUDI as my special canine guest of honour.  So...come and meet him!

A book launch for a special dog wouldn't be the same without a special dog, would it?

Thank you to Kate, at LoveBooks for allowing us to do things a little differently!

So there you have it...a book launch with a difference!
Thank you, Zena, for accepting the invitation on behalf of 'Rudi'
I am delighted!





 

Saturday, November 26, 2011

MAXDOG's first public engagement

GREETINGS FROM SOUTH AFRICA!
MAXMOM here...
Above: me and Clare-Rose Julius (General Manager of Porcupine Press)

Hello there to all my wonderful friends around the world.

After not getting much sleep the night before, I finally managed to get my act together and have everything ready for MAXDOG's first book signing event.

Above: First customers/readers

Our local community police forum and the management of

 organised a 'Carols-by-Candlelight' event last night - in support of our community's current campaign:
"Crime Prevention through Divine Intervention"

The organisers graciously invited me to come along with the very first copies of MAXDOG
 ("Hot-off-the-press)
 to be offered for sale and signing to our immediate community.

Above: Adriana van Eyssen (General Manager of Randridge Mall) buys one of the first copies of MAXDOG.

The atmosphere was festive and happy, and overseen by an engaging Master of ceremonies and our ever present community policing forum.

The SAPS Police Band and the St John's Youth Band entertained the public, and the choir from Kingsway school led the public in the carols. "MAXDOG" too, was present and visible. It was a lovely evening!

I am so thankful to my friends and family who came along to celebrate and to support me. 
 Above: The Weinerlein family
 Above: Candice Botha, me and Andrea Botha
 Above: Shelly van Gool and partner
 Above: Barbara Allison chats to me.

Above: Lorraine and I celebrate
(Thank you, Lorraine for taking all the other photographs!!!)
Above: Mike Cloete and me
 Above: My cousin Doug Shead and me.
Above: My husband Les ("Mike" in MAXDOG) and me.

Thank you Lorraine and Jenny for taking care of all the administration and allowing me to simply engage with the public.  I am so grateful for your help and for granting me peace-of-mind despite my initial nerves.
 Lorraine and Jenny help me with 'business'.



 Above: Not ONE, but FOUR copies to sign for Shirley!


Clare-Rose Julius - the general manager of Porcupine Press (my publishers) also came along to give her support. 
Above: Pam and Eugene Halgreen, and Clare-Rose Julius.

Thank you Clare!

It's been really hectic here and I feel as if I am on a treadmill (a fast one, I might add) ... that may not stop.  I discovered yesterday that my limit without sleep is 19 hours.  (I would have been an interesting subject for a cartoon caricature of 'A walking Zombie'!)
I suppose I shouldn't distress, because this is, indeed, one example of...

"LIVE LIFE TO THE MAX!"

Thank you again to the management and staff of Randridge Mall, especially to Adriana van Eyssen as well as Heather Brits (Honeydew Community Policing Forum), for welcoming me and promoting MAXDOG.

"Wherever MAXDOG goes, let it do good!

Sending lotsaluv